I've been thinking about the subject of
love for a while now. I've wanted to blog about it, but could never
really articulate what was in my heart and mind. However, while
studying the general conference talks from The November 2013 Ensign,
the thoughts and feelings of my mind and heart came together.
The Sunday sessions of the October 2013
General conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints
had diverse talks given by just as diverse speakers. Yet, there was
a common theme: Love.
Many quoted or referred to the two
great commandments that Christ discussed in The New Testament. The
first is to love God with all our heart, might, mind, and strength.
The second is to love our neighbor as ourselves. Then Christ said on
these hang all the laws and the prophets.
This is how Christ lived. He loved His
Heavenly Father first and foremost, and he loved his brothers and
sisters. How did He show His love? He kept all of His Father's
commandments and accomplished all His Father wanted Him to do. He
served, blessed, helped, and taught others, eventually, giving His
life for them, His willing sacrifice. He forgave the repentant, and
for those who had not repented yet, he gave them time to do so.
This is what he did for the woman taken
in Adultery. The leaders of the Jews wanted Him to follow the law
which meant immediate death for her. Christ knew if she was to die
without repentance it could mean spiritual death (eternal separation
from God). When Christ asked her if any man condemned her, he was
asking if there were any left desiring her life. There was none and
Christ told her neither did He, but He told her to go and sin no
more. Thus giving her time to repent and develop a love for God and
the opportunity to keep His commandments. He wasn't giving her
permission to sin more, but was giving her the needed time and chance
to change. This is what God has given all of us, time to work out
our salvation.
To truly love our fellow beings we need
to first love the Father of us all, God. Then true love of our
neighbors can be cultivated. Not permissiveness or acceptance of all
that others would like to do, but the love that reaches out, teaches
about the Savior's sacrifice for them and His ability to save all
mankind, the love that teaches Heavenly Father's plan for them, and
that teaches some things in this life will bring eternal misery and
captivity, the love that teaches that no one is beyond the Savior's
ability to rescue, and that all of God's children are worth the
effort. This is real, true, eternal love, or as the scriptures call
it: CHARITY.
Acceptance of the person is
unconditional love and is essential, but we should never decide that acceptance of all that
is put into the heart of man is loving them. We would never do that
with our children. Most of us understand that saying “no” to
some things is showing our children love. However, when it comes to
society for some reason this same understanding is lost, and
continually saying “yes, whatever you want” is considered love.
It seems to me, essentially that we are just saying “Go,
eat, drink, be merry, and do whatever you want, it makes no
difference to me.”
Only, it should make every difference to us. It should make us
sorrow for the struggles and the unhappiness they experience, after
all “wickedness never was (is) happiness”. It should make us
yearn to help them feel the love of God through His Holy Spirit. It
should make us quake and tremble as it did the sons of Mosiah as we
contemplate the eternal consequences. Mosiah 28:3 “Now
they were desirous that salvation should be declared to every
creature, for they could not bear
that
any human soul
should
perish;
yea, even the very thoughts that any soul should endure endless
torment
did cause them to quake and tremble.”
We
should
love
them continually, we should
pray
for them always, we should
bare
testimony as the spirit admonishes, and we should
mourn
for them and with them as they travel down their rough, troubled, and
miserable paths
that lead them away from their loving Heavenly Father. Last, we
should
hope,
with an enduring
hope, that they will choose to love God and His Son Jesus Christ,
obey Their
commandments, and
that they will be able to feel the deep and abiding love that
Heavenly Father and our Savior have for them.
This
is not the love the world teaches, this is a deeper, more abiding
love, an eternal love. This is true love, the love God wants us to
have for His children. The love that compels us to reach out and
to
rescue our brothers and sisters.
It
is my hope and prayer that we may love God with all our hearts,
might, minds,
and strength, thereby making it possible for us to acquire the
pure love of Christ for all men. May we always reach out and rescue
those
in need. May we
never believe that to
acquiesce
to
others
choices is greater love than bringing them to Christ, or
that anyone
is beyond Christ's Redeeming power or the love of God. In the name
of Jesus Christ Amen.